Finding Calm

£29.00

Practical tools to understand anxiety, build confidence and respond differently when thoughts feel overwhelming.

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What you'll learn

  • Understand how anxiety and the nervous system respond to perceived threat
  • Recognise intrusive thoughts without treating every thought as meaningful
  • Identify checking, reassurance, avoidance and mental-review patterns
  • Build greater tolerance for uncertainty
  • Develop self-compassion and reduce shame
  • Recognise perfectionism, responsibility and control-based thinking
  • Take small, courageous steps towards confidence and valued living
  • Build a personal toolkit for difficult days and future setbacks

Who this is for

  • Young people experiencing anxiety or intrusive thoughts
  • Teenagers who feel caught in repetitive checking, reassurance or overthinking
  • Young people working therapeutically on OCD-related patterns
  • Those struggling with uncertainty, perfectionism or self-criticism
  • Parents or carers purchasing a structured resource to support appropriate therapeutic work
  • Young people who want practical exercises rather than theory alone

What's inside

  • A structured 12-session therapeutic journey
  • Anxiety-alarm and nervous-system exercises
  • Intrusive-thought and OCD-cycle mapping
  • Checking and reassurance awareness tools
  • Uncertainty exercises
  • Self-compassion and shame work
  • Responsibility, perfectionism and control exercises
  • Values and identity exercises
  • Window of Tolerance tools
  • Personal reassurance, sleep and support plans
  • Progress reviews and future-planning pages

Finding Calm is a supportive therapeutic workbook created to help young people better understand anxiety, intrusive thoughts and the patterns that can keep them feeling stuck.

Across 12 structured sessions, the workbook helps young people recognise how the anxiety alarm works, separate themselves from anxious thoughts, understand checking and reassurance cycles, make room for uncertainty and develop a more compassionate relationship with themselves.

It combines guided reflection, practical exercises and therapist-supported tools designed to help young people move towards courage, confidence, connection and the parts of life that matter to them. The aim is not to eliminate anxiety completely, but to help them respond to it differently and return more fully to everyday life.

What you will learn

• Understand anxiety and the nervous system
• Recognise intrusive thoughts without treating every thought as meaningful
• Build tolerance for uncertainty and self-compassion
• Take courageous steps towards valued living

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